After spending days there we had to fly back home. We spent a couple of weeks back in Texas waiting for our court date. We showed pictures to the boys and told them her name. Unfortunately, we have not had internet at the house either so this is why this blog is so late. Tonight we are back in NV, internet is working and I am typing away. More about the last couple days in the next post.
Georgina on My Mind
Sunday, July 13, 2014
Where we were...Where we are
After spending days there we had to fly back home. We spent a couple of weeks back in Texas waiting for our court date. We showed pictures to the boys and told them her name. Unfortunately, we have not had internet at the house either so this is why this blog is so late. Tonight we are back in NV, internet is working and I am typing away. More about the last couple days in the next post.
Sunday, June 8, 2014
Ukraine in the membrane
Catching up on the last couple of days
There are very vivid memories I have of Ukraine from the last time we were here. It was very cold, snowy,and wet. The sun rarely came out and it was 30 degrees below 0. It seemed everyone wore black and nobody ever smiled. Now at that temperature I was not smiling much either, but there just seemed to be a dark cloud over this country. When we decided to adopt here again I have to say that I was not looking forward to coming back to the land of gloom and doom, but I knew our mission and coming here was part of it. Well you always hear people talk about first impressions and giving things time; this is one of those great examples. Now I am not saying the difference is night and day, but the town of Kiev is just much more vibrant and people just seem happier. Maybe the Cold just depressed them or maybe a new government gives them a sense of pride or hope again. I don't know what it is, but I have enjoyed walking the streets of Ukraine's capital city. Along with more smiles, I have seen and learned some new and interesting things.Two days ago we went back to the DAP office to get our referral for Georgina. We found out we will be headed out on Monday and will hopefully get to meet her on Tuesday. Although we are enjoying our stay in Kiev, we are so ready to extend our journey to the Zhytomyr region where her orphanage is. It is so strange and exciting to think that both her life and ours is going to change forever in a couple of days. With everything that we know about her, she knows nothing about us. In fact, she has no clue we are even coming. That just seems so surreal to me, but is a reality all orphans have. I assume that many wonder if they will ever receive something better...and then for some one day they find a family. What an honor it is for us to be a part of that. I wish so many more families and orphans could share this type of experience. Of course with all the excitement we have with our new family member, it is impossible not to miss our boys at home. They are being well entertained by family and friends, but leaving them has been very difficult. Hopefully they will understand and one day this whole thing will be an amazing bedtime story we tell them at night..."The story of us".
Yesterday we walked out of our apartment in Kiev and our street was a ghost town. Police officers
everywhere directing pedestrians and restricting auto traffic. We continued to walk to a coffee shop when a US motorcade ran through. In one car John McCain and in the other Joe Biden. Of course we follow the motorcade on foot as far as we could go until a secret service guy stopped us. He looked at my Texas A&M Shirt and asked if we were American. We said yes and he came to shake our hand. We asked him what was going on and he told us "your Vice President is here." Apparently, Petro Poroshenko, the new president was giving an inauguration speech right around the corner from our place here in Kiev and Amtrak Joe and John "maverick" McCain were here to support the guy they call the "candy man". U.S. snipers were right across the parking lot talking on their phones before they walked off with rifles in tow to get to their perches. Just another day at work I guess. Later in the day there was a delegation at St. Sophia's Church and Biden was meeting with dignitaries from several countries including Russia and the Ukraine. The Ukrainian revolution and current election could prove to be a pivotal time in Ukrainian history and it was neat to be here to see some of it.
By far the musicians are the best street performers, but there is a break dancing group that is fun to watch. Guys between the ages of 22-35 doing windmills, flares, back spins, and head spins. Oh, if I were just a few years younger..... Not sure what the guy was doing with the potbellied pig, but apparently whether you have talent or not you can make money down on the square. I would not expect too many of them to be on Ukrayina maye talant (Ukraine has talent) anytime soon. Oksana Merchenko or Simon Cowell was not in attendance.
Tomorrow we head to her region and I will post again as soon as I can. Dasvidanya!
Friday, June 6, 2014
DAP it up,we are going to see our Girl
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the decision in God's hands. I knew that no matter what information we received it was his plan and we would not question it. She turns 5 in December and Debbie and I had already talked about returning to get her when she was of age. After an hour of waiting we finally received news that her updated 6 month medical report listed her as still available for special needs adoption. Our emotions were mixed, but we now know we can go meet her, bring her home, and get her the medical attention she needs. Tomorrow we will return to the same office and pick our adoption referral and hopefully be on our way to see her soon.
Thursday, June 5, 2014
New Living, Jet Lag and Lost Luggage
Well the lat 72 hours have been hectic. We have managed to move from one house to
another, close on a house, and somehow get on a plane to get to the
Ukraine. We have received a lot of great
news, but timing is everything. It is
definitely hard enough to pack for a trip where you don’t know what the weather
will be like or what else you will need, but packing suitcases from boxes that
were moved from one house to the other is quite the experience. I am sure we forgot plenty of things we will
want, but we made sure we packed everything we need. I believe I have slept 4-5 hours over the
last few days and Debbie is not far behind me.
Our two boys, Carter and Stasik, share the excitement of a new home, but
the anxiety of moving has placed a heavy toll on them as well. Add that to the fact that we are leaving the
country is a whole different ball game.
Our friend Anna took the boys before we boarded a plane so hopefully
they will forget we are gone and will not get too upset about us being gone for
a few days or weeks. Last time we went
to get Stasik, Carter did not take it well and that has been a concern every
since we decided to adopt again.
So here we are landing on Eastern European soil with no idea
what to expect. Our media makes Kiev and
other regions of the Ukraine seem dangerous and now we will get to see for
ourselves. The flights leaving from
Dallas/Fort Worth seemed to be the shortest we have ever had, but this is probably
because we are both sleep walking.
Neither of us have slept and now we have to try to stay awake in order
to get on a schedule that is 8 hours ahead of ours at home. We had two layovers
and I believe on one flight we had dinner and breakfast within 3 hours of each
other in order to compensate for time change.
Needless to say when we arrived, we were not very hungry but extremely
sleepy. We thought we would get off the
plane, get our luggage, and meet our driver that takes us to our
apartment. Instead, we were lucky enough to wait
in line for 2 hours to report luggage that the airline lost. No trip we take is ever smooth; there is always
at least one thing that happens that is unexpected and I am sure this will not be the last. Debbie finally filled
out the paperwork and off we went to good ol’ downtown Kiev. Usually we go to the store and buy groceries
before we get settled, but I fell asleep on the trip from the airport and I
think we were both just ready to lie down. We were in our apartment at 4:00 pm
slept until 9:00pm, we got up and went to the market for food and then back in bed again. Tomorrow morning we go to our DAP appointment
and find out more about our new little girl Georgina. Jet lag and lost luggage has made it quite a
day!!
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
It is time to begin again
Over the last couple of years we have spent time focusing on Stasik, whom we adopted from the Ukraine and brought home in Feb 2012. In that time we have also talked about the possibility of adopting again. Through this process we have found the most beautiful girl for our boys to call their sister. Georgina is her name and from here on out,...she will be on our mind!
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